“tête-à-tête”, on google it says this means:
- 1. a private conversation between two people.
Gonna keep it extremely brief.. try to.
Sarcasm, Because beating the crap out of people is illegal.
- You didn’t know.
- You had no idea what kinda crazy they were.
Most importantly, They were the people you hadn't talked to.
- Yup, they were exactly the category of people your parents told you not to talk to, aka. strangers.
Yet you sinners crossed that cute little boundary, and made your own world of friends, colleagues, besties-with-whom-you-click-100s-of -selfies.. and lay waste on this beautiful earth.
One little chit-chat to start with and now you have people on whom you rely on and even made acquaintance with people you now regret to have ever talked with, bummer?
It all started with that little hello, hi, blessing, an advice, a may-I-suggest, an argument, when you dared to ask out that adorable girl. And then she went out with you for coffee only because you didn’t resemble me. That’s when you made a new companion. Only for a moment? A few days? Years, life-time? All that. Just because you started a conversation with a person.
I’m definitely on a long wrong path if I mean to tell you to talk to any random stranger, a hobo, an ex-convict with a change of heart-maybe, an ex-convit missing in the eyes of police-Hell No! 😛
But what I say if I’m saying anything is. Don’t shut yourself out. Go explore, get to know what your “might-be-fate” has to offer you. Socialise, be open, be good, I believe sometimes the answer to your problems is within the memories and experiences of the other person.
Do approach first if you really wanna, it won’t show how desperate you are if anybody says so, but shows how easy-going you are with yourself and people around you. Not careless but carefree, have a conversation with every kinda entity you wish to. And even the ones you’d never even think to open a conversation with, who knows you might get lucky and enjoy
And most Importantly, be yourself. Be the conversation you want to be, not the one the other person likes to be. You have no idea how much you’ll get to know and feel.
Do chit-chat !
First convos are always so fascinating. I love the way it goes from stranger-who-doesn’t-talk to stranger-who’s-now-speaking-to-me to “awkward-silence-with-stranger” to It was Fun getting to know him!!
Do tell me if you have such great stories and awkward introductions and weird first talks.
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